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Last week on Weekend Travel Inspiration, I started telling you how I’ve chosen to live my life a bit differently than many of my friends and family. Jim and I talked about it quite a bit this past weekend, because we were off to the south of France to the Lemon festival in Menton and we spent some time in Monaco.

One of the things we did was head over to the Monte Carlo Casino so that Jim could gamble in this world famous saloon. He even came right out and said, “This has been on my bucket list for a long time!” Jim has always liked to dabble at gambling when the chance arose and even has a few good stories to tell about it, but I did not know that he had always wanted to go to Monte Carlo and try his luck.

So, we talked about bucket lists, or a wish list, or a “to-do” list. I don’t like the morbidity that “bucket list” implies. Being born into a traveling family and designing a life for myself that has been rich in experiences, I feel I’ve done so many things that people dream they can do one day. I liken it to an ice cream sundae, with scoops of hundreds of varieties of flavors, some a little sweeter than others. And like Susan Sontag, my list is never-ending, so I think I’m going to call mine my “cherry” list.

I can look at the word “cherry” in a couple of different ways that I think work well. “Popping the cherry” simply means your “first time.”  Since the things on my list will primarily be things I’ve never done before, they all fall neatly into this category. And, of course with my ice cream sundae life, it will never be complete without the cherry on top. So there you have it. My term for my “to do” list, my “wish” list, my list of things I want to do.

I’ve never before really tried to write down the places I want to go, because quite frankly the answer is everywhere. And likewise, I’ve never really written down those things that I want to accomplish and experience. I’ve looked for them, listened for them, jumped at the chance for them, but never written them down. So this week, I’m going to start my cherry list. Jim is going to chime in next week with his, and even though I don’t want to ever become obsessed with this list, have it drive my decisions, I definitely want to not forget them and try to do them whenever possible.

First here are a few things I’ve done that I consider cherries…super special!

Do a max climb and pull some serious Gs in an F-15
Have one of my photographs displayed in a museum
Go on a safari in Africa
Explore ancient Incan ruins in Peru
See the moiais on Easter Island
Snorkel the Great Barrier Reef
Ride Mongolian ponies over the high steppes
Ride a camel in the Gobi Desert, the Thar Desert, the desert of Egypt
Camp in beautiful places like a Danish fjord, the Costa Brava in Spain, all through Alaska
Doing friendship and cultural exchanges all over the world

My Cherry List

There is no way I could ever put this list in some sort of order, but there is one place I would love to go that is just so difficult to get to (and expensive). So I have to say it might take my number one spot.  Antartica!

As you might expect, much of my list is about where I want to go versus what I want to do there, but sometimes just being someplace new is enough of a high, a rush for me. The experience is smelling the air, tasting the food, meeting the people. These are inherent parts of all of our trips, so I won’t keep writing it down.

I started out 2016 with a list of dream destinations for this year, all to do with exploring more of Europe, especially the Eastern parts.  Consider them the beginning of this ever-lengthening list.

Chile – We’ve been. We love it. We have people we love there, but I want to visit the spectacular Patagonia.
Argentina – I think I’ve said before, I love meat!
Ushuaia – Gateway to Antarctica and so much more
Brazil – jungles, Iguasu Falls
Amazon River- swimming with pink dolphins and piranhas(?)
Serengeti Migration – a major dream of mine!
Grand Canyon – been a few times and it doesn’t ever disappoint, but I want to do the rafting trip
Nepal – part of the circuit, Chitwan NP, wash an elephant
Silk Road – visiting the “Stans”, the back country of China
Traveling around the Pacific Islands
Cuba – Does Obama need a travel blogger on his trip?
North Korea – more than just one step
USA – Florida – camp on the Dry Tortugas/manatees
Central America – Tikal/Guatemala/ Mayan ruins
Bolivia – Salar de Uyuni
Madagascar – Lemurs and Baobobs!
Australia – a third time with plenty of road tripping – Center /Uluru, Tasmania, and the West
Ethiopia – Lalibela and more
Rhwanda – gorillas
Ferry around the Caribbean
Timbuktu, Mali
Stay in a cabin/hut on stilts someplace like Fiji or Bora Bora

**Okay, this is just a start.  I want to do so many things that I just can’t possibly remember them all. This is a living list that will grow and grow.

How about you? Do you have a list?  What do you call your list?  What is the top thing on your list?



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Corinne Vail is a world traveler, writer, photographer, speaker, and teacher. Looking for the quirky and unusual as well as the best food around the world, she has traveled all her life. She’s lived in Turkey, England, Germany, Japan, South Korea, and the Netherlands and visited over 90 countries with her family. Learn more about Corinne and Reflections Enroute on the About page.

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  1. I inspired by reading this post.I have my own wishlist.But,I haven’t written down anything yet.Basically I want to travel to the nearby Asian countries.We always miss the chance with last minute decisions and as Sri Lankans we need to get visa for most countries.So,for us it is difficult to arrange last minute overseas holidays. 🙂

  2. I don’t have a list but I know if I did my number 1 would be the same as yours – Antarctica! I’ve never been to the Arctic Circle either so that would be there too. Both will have to wait till family circumstances change, but I’m sure we’ll get there someday.

  3. I am like you, I want to go everywhere. We’ve been to many of the places that you have. I think my particular affinity is for Asian countries like Thailand, Vietnam and Cambodia. Would love to visit more of that side of the world.
    We are wintering in Mexico and I also feel very connected here. Not the touristy parts but the real towns.
    I also want to go to Israel but having a hard time convincing my husband of that one. He doesn’t want to do the European Christmas fairs either, nothing cold for him, so maybe I can convince a friend to go with me.

  4. I miss Menton and Southern France. I haven’t been there for a while. I like the expression of “popping the cherry” and the “cherry list.” I’m going to make one for myself.

  5. Hahah – great take on the “bucket list” trend and a great list itself. I don’t like having a list because it limits my options. I have my eyes opened for deals and mind opened to new adventures anywhere – so if there’s something that catches my eyes at that moment, I would go for it.

  6. This post resonates with me – yes, I do have things I would like to do at some point, but I’m happy most of the time to see what adventures fall my way. You never know, I may love that thing that I never thought I would be interested in!

  7. Hi Corinne, I so love this post. Like you, I’d go anywhere! I’d love to see them all. Most of the time, we let the destination find us. It’s fun figuring out which destination is calling for us at a certain moment. I ‘m routing for you to make it to Antarctica soon. I have no doubt you will get there sometime soon.

  8. I don’t like the term bucket list either it is morbid and wish list implies it will never happen. So I really like your term Cherry List it implies achieving that goal is like getting the cherry on top!

  9. We have two lists: The traditional Bucket List is our Lottery List. Those are the things we’d like to do if time and money were no object. For the more reasonable wishes, we have a To Do list, a name we chose for its sense of urgency. These aren’t wishes, they are things we need to do! Thanks for sharing your list…we may end up stealing a few of those. 😉

  10. When my husband and I married 30 years ago, we wrote out a travel list on a small piece of paper of 25 destinations we wanted to go to. We’ve been working on it ever since. So I guess ours is just a “travel” list but I like the cherry list name better. Good luck on achieving your goals!

  11. I like the name “cherry list.” It is so unique. I used to write kind of a bucket list at the beginning of the year. I use to write all the things I wanted to do in or near Los Angeles. It helped me to stay motivated to go out and explore instead of staying home in the couch. I should do one for the year. In terms of a cherry list, my list is way long.

  12. I like your idea of a “cherry list” 🙂 because I’ve never liked “bucket list” – for the same reason as you. Too morbid! And knowing you, you’ll hit them all!

  13. I like the idea of a cherry list instead of a bucket list. I’d love to go to Antarctica, too, especially after seeing Marisol’s photos of that continent. I’m a bit of a strange bird in that I like to dream about future destinations, but I’m hesitant to put them on a “my life wouldn’t be complete without it” list. That would leave too much room for disappointment. So I like your proposal of viewing them as a cherry on top.

  14. I don’t have a list, not even a cherry list. I asked Gordon, and he doesn’t either. We seem to fly by the seat of our pants, and things just happen. Like when Gordon was driving to work, watching the sun rise, and in his scientific brain he connected it to an eclipse, and that is how we ended up exploring Turkey. Or I read a book when I was a kid and ended up in Samoa, and Switzerland, thanks to Heidi. Or we went to Sri Lanka because I had been friends with a Sri Lankan girl at university. Our approach is so random. Bucket list? historically inaccurate anyhow.

    1. Paula, I think we mostly do that, too, but then sometimes I get to a place with limited time and forget about this cool experience I wanted to have there! Plus, it’s always fun to dream.

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